Kingdom Principles Teaching Series, #436

Kingdom Principles Teaching Series, #436

Subject: I Am My Father’s Child: Special Declarations for Women, Part 1

Theme verse: Agapé Love Never Fails. 1 Corinthians 13:8

[My sisters, it’s time! This is a slow chew. Digest thoroughly. This is strong and powerful. It will cut deeply - in a good way. Some of these will make you laugh; others will make you cry. It’s OK.

The Father’s grace will keep you. In the midst of your tears, agapé love will be delivering you, healing you, cleaning you up, cleaning you out, restoring you and setting you free. Through it all the blood will be working. Get ready! Enjoy. JH]

I Am My Father’s Child: Special Declarations for Women

I am my Father’s child. The Father loves me.
I am my Father’s child. I am whole. I was broken in my soul at one time but I am no longer broken. I am no longer splintered. I am whole.
I am my Father’s child. I am a woman of value. I will honor and respect myself. I love myself to the same degree and depth with which the Father loves me. I am loved. I am my Father’s child. I am special. I am not rejected. I am accepted.
I am my Father’s child. I made mistakes in the past. I exercised poor judgment and made some poor choices which affected me for many years. I have accepted responsibility for my decisions and their consequences. I forgive me and I still love myself. I am loved. The Father loves me. I am my Father’s child. The Father is gracious with me and I am gracious with myself.
I am my Father’s child. Because I trust Father, I will not second-guess His decisions or His choices for my life. I trust Father’s timing in all areas of my life. I may not understand Father’s timing and I may not like Father’s timing but I trust His timing. I trust the Father. I trust Father’s judgment for my life. The Father loves me. I am my Father’s child.

I am my Father’s woman. I will not have friends, associates or acquaintances that devalue, dishonor or disrespect me. I honor myself. I honor the Christ inside of me. I attract people into my life
who honor me and who honor the Christ in me. I am worthy of honor. I will not tolerate abuse of any type from anyone because I am my Father’s woman. I am loved. The Father loves me.

I am single-focused. I am not distracted by the past. I live in the present and I have hope for the future. My previous sins are not who or what I am. Through the blood of Jesus, I am pure, I am clean, I am holy and I am whole. My sins have been washed away. Jesus’ blood has made me whole.

I am my Father’s daughter. I am all woman. 100% woman. I am not limited to my individual body parts. I am more than the individual pieces of my body. I am more than the sum of all of my body parts.
I am not a sex object, something to be goggled over, played with and groped, a toy for someone’s selfish, lustful satisfaction. I respect myself and I will be respected. I am not part woman; I am all woman! I am a whole woman, a complete woman, a fulfilled woman. I am my Father’s beloved. I am a loved woman. I am my Father’s child. I am not rejected; I am loved. The Father loves me.

I am my Father’s child. I do not identify with my previous poor choices. I identify with the blood of Jesus. I am bigger than my mistakes. I have been forgiven. I am loved. The Father loves me.

I am my Father’s daughter. I am a whole person and I live my life in balance. I do not focus on one part of my life to the detriment or neglect of other parts of my life. My life is balanced. I live in balance. In the past I tolerated abuse of various types but no more. Before I didn’t know any better but now
I know better and I will not tolerate abuse from anyone. Today I am whole. The Father loves me.


I am my Father’s daughter. I am a whole person. I am not my boobs or my butt or my female genitalia. I am not divided into sub-parts or subordinate pieces where one piece has more value than another piece. I am a whole person, a whole woman. As a whole woman, my individual parts have value but my parts do not have more value than me. I value, I honor and I respect myself as a whole person. I like me. I love me. I love me with unconditional agapé love. Father loves me with unconditional agapé love. I will honor and respect all of me. I am loved – all of me. The Father loves me.

I am not rejected. I am my Father’s daughter and I forgive myself. In the past, I made many mistakes. I abused my soul and my body. I caused my own soul wounds. I have confessed my sins. Father forgave me and I forgave myself. Sometimes I have flashbacks, memories, snippets from my past. I quietly talk to myself, reminding myself that my previous sins and mistakes are already under
the blood of Jesus. I tell the enemy that he cannot bring up things from my past which have already been washed away by the blood. In the Father’s eyes those things never happened. I am free from all guilt. I am free from all shame. I am a new person. I am free. My Father loves me.

I am beginning to understand that I have some major control issues. I have control issues because I have serious trust issues. These control and trust issues are residue from the drama and trauma from rejections, invasions or violations. [People are obsessive control freaks because of trauma, unhealed wounds and fear.] When these incidents occurred, I lacked control over them and wasn’t able to stop them. What I couldn’t control then, I am attempting to control now but this isn’t fair to my ‘now’ life. The people who hurt me then are not the same people I am attempting to control now. I can’t control others. Trying to control others is self-defeating. People must be free to live their own life. I have been attempting to alleviate the pain from the past by controlling the present.

This hasn’t worked very well. While attempting to find balance and appear normal, I have been causing strife, chaos and confusion all around me. I have been reproducing my internal trauma by recreating it through ongoing, external drama. It’s emotional and psychological tit-for-tat, a game which no one wins. In an unhealthy attempt to hide and run from my trauma, I’ve been pushing other people’s buttons and driving many of those around me almost crazy. My internal turmoil will be reduced and alleviated only through the Word and mature agapé love.

Because of the Word and through the Father’s agapé love, I am learning that I’ve been in pain all of these years. I’ve been emotionally vomiting all over others. It isn’t my heart to be a pushy, overbearing, obsessive, emotionally manipulative control freak but that’s how I’ve been behaving.
Borderline obnoxious. In pain, I caused pain for others. I need to apologize for my behavior. While in the throes of pain and trauma, I’ve been pushing away from me the very thing I need the most – people. Pain often causes you to do strange things. Father’s agapé love will heal me.

Now that I understand why I do what I do, I acknowledge that I need to make some major changes. Today I make a commitment to myself that I will face, deal with and overcome the trauma from my personal drama. I will no longer transfer my unresolved emotional issues and pain onto others. I will accept Father’s agapé love. Father ministers His agapé love and healing through His people. Father will send someone to help me because He loves me. Father’s agapé love will heal me as
I allow others to minister agapé love to me. When they show up, I will Trust the Anointing.


Spoken by the Father, Saturday, December 26, 2009

Completed Saturday, February 6, 2010
Transcribed by Janet Henderson